Perhaps you learned a process for making business decisions, or
belonged to a church that taught a Bible-based model for making moral decisions.
And if you have any involvement in the legal or medical fields you have undoubtedly
been schooled in professional ethics and ethical decision-making.
Regardless of the training or guidance you may have received, there is an even
more important tool upon which you can rely to help you make good decisions. It
is not a secret technique, nor is it something that is difficult to learn. The key
to making good decisions is to listen to your own intuition when you are “in the
zone” with yourself. The definition of “in the zone” will be different for you than
for another person, depending on how you are when you are experiencing yourself
at your best.
Does the idea of depending on your own intuition for guidance feel scary? You
are not alone, because many people believe that if they don’t follow specific, defined
steps when dealing with a problem they will end up with a bad result. With some
practice, though, you will soon find that you do indeed have the skill to make good
decisions while trusting your Self. You don’t have to start out as an expert in
the subject area of the decision to be made, because you have it within yourself
to gather all the information you need and make a good decision.
Decision-Making Process
Let’s look at an example of how this works. You have probably had to make many
financial decisions in your life, and you will most likely have to make many more
in the years to come. In the past, how did you make those decisions? Did you consider
facts, figures, ethics and estimates? To some extent, most likely, the answer is
yes. Did you consider your own inner voice and what it was telling you to do? Most
likely, the answer is maybe.
In a more "typical" or "traditional" model of decision-making, the style you
use is a combination of facts and feelings, information and intuition. Whether participating
in a group or acting on your own, allow your inner self to come through and listen
to “that little voice” guiding you and helping you through the decision making process.
Think of it this way – have you ever made a decision that just didn’t “feel right”
at the time, and looking back you realize you made a mistake? Chances are that “feeling”
you had was your inner voice trying to get your attention.
If you are someone who is very fact-oriented, this may feel too “touchy-feely”
and perhaps even seems to verge on the edge of irresponsible. After all, you may
be thinking, when emotion is brought into decision making the results are usually
less than perfect. However, listening to your inner voice is different than listening
to your emotions because it is based on your own self-knowledge rather than impulsive
bursts of feeling.
The bottom line is that when you truly trust yourself, making good decisions
becomes a way of life.
For more detailed information about this
decision-making
model, please visit www.mythogenicself.com.